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Developing Distance-Devotion
As we
have discussed, learning and literacy are highly influenced by emotion. A
quiet snuggle while reading a book on Grandmother's lap can make any child
want to read. But what is the solution when Grandmother lives 1000 miles
away?
Here in the office we appreciate good technology.
Cell phones with video chat are excellent for face-to-face visits.
Texting is a vital source of communication. And purse-sized
computers are a must-have. But to our surprise, nothing builds a
long distance literacy connection between
grandparent and grandchild like an old fashioned fax machine. Here's
why ...
The Family Fax Network: As
you know, fax machines provide instant,
tangible contact between a child and an extended family
member. Unlike a computer, with a fax machine a child can easily transmit
hand-written or hand-drawn communication, thereby providing opportunities
for sharing language. This exchange of personal written
expression between child and grandparent encourages neural
connections about written language. Hence, as we
read in How Young Children Learn and
Reading With Your Child, the
foundation to literacy is strengthened.
Inexpensive and full of value:
If you can still find one, the best fax machine
for children to use is the least expensive model.
They use rolls of inexpensive thermal paper which do not require any
replacement toner. With proper supervision, young children can quickly
learn to fax a note, drawing, or their name. In turn, extended family
members from all over the world can reply.
Below are a few tips to keep in mind as you make your family fax network
an ongoing family reunion:
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Most fax
machines come with the capacity to store numbers. Use photos of relatives
next to the corresponding, programmed, speed dial buttons.
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Since the
thermal fax paper is on a roll, short notes can be sent using half a piece
of paper. This will conserve paper on the receiving machine.
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Use black ink:
blue ink and pencil do not transmit well.
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Just as
Grandmother puts her grandchild's drawing on her refrigerator, have your
child put Grandmother's art work on your refrigerator.

A personal note from one of our associates:
When my children were young, they faxed Grandma their report cards,
favorite jokes, poetry, essays, 4-foot birthday signs, holiday greetings,
etc. In turn, Grandma faxed back pictures, praise, and promises. When my
children became adults, they faxed tangible visits that Grandma could read
over and over while sitting in her living room chair. Then Grandma became
ill and lost her language skills. To help her recover, we continued to fax
her everything from cartoons to This Day in History. Soon her
language re-emerged. Through the fax machine, she was re-connected to the
outside world and with those who love her most. Now that Grandma is
89, we still fax her every morning, promptly at
8am. She faxes back later in the day, reporting on life in the home for
partying octogenarians.
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